Talk:EESM 2.0/@comment-4423292-20190115061126/@comment-4423292-20190116075529

Also: solo poly. Back in th day I considered this to be the best way to balance human connection with not falling into old patterns of clingliness and dependency.

And it absolutely is that. But looking back on some of the things I wrote then, I’m like, “Damn—this absolutely hits on how I myself feel now.”

So yeah. From “kinda ace but also kinda not” to “solo poly” I think I’ve long since projected the hardest to understand corners of my own heart into Ileana.